• demlet@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Explanations aren’t excuses, and without explanations we can’t fix the problem. Villainizing can be useful and certainly feels good but it doesn’t accomplish much else.

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          1 year ago

          If you’re looking at this pic and thinking it describes a normal relationshio dynamic, yeah, it’s being used as an excuse.

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            1 year ago

            If you look through my comments in this thread you’ll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps.