Short time veteran of the fediverse New to Lemmy, at the time of this bio edit, @ ~1 hour I’m also littletranspunk@kolektiva.social And littletranspunk@enby.site

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I will admit, I cheated once in my life on one person, and though I feel bad about it I felt justified in doing so as well. It was an extremely toxic relationship where I feared going home and learned to block punches and thrown objects. It was almost a decade ago now, but even all my other relationships I’ve had wouldn’t have felt justification to cheat.

    I know I don’t have to say that, but I’d rather people learn from my mistakes and I own up to all my mistakes, justified or not.

    My take? Don’t cheat, just find a way, literally any way, to get out. It’s more dangerous to antagonize your abuser than to just escape.



  • I’ve hit that same jackpot. All my previous relationships were toxic AF and now I’m with my 2 girlfriends who I trust more than myself. I even have a history of lying to prevent pain and I just can’t lie to them even if I try. They are truly the best things to ever happen to me and I would do anything for them especially since I don’t even have to change a thing about myself to make them happy